Programmed People
Ever had a conversation (or tried to
have one anyway) with someone who couldn’t focus on one main point if their
lives depended on it? Chances are it isn’t just ADD. Too many people today
react like Pavlov’s dog whenever important topics like politics or religion are
brought up. Instead of an honest thoughtful exchange of ideas, so many people today
regurgitate prepackaged responses to important questions like a Tourretes
patient stuck on a spasm of talking points. Critical thinking and basic logic is
a lost skill set.
It is nearly impossible to have an
important two way conversation with someone like that because no matter what
you say, it just isn’t registering with the gray matter between their ears.
They aren’t thinking critically about what you said. What’s worse is that they
aren’t just repeating words. Any one of a dozen push button topics will not
only launch them instantly into insulting personal attacks, but they will
believe the absolute worst about you without any evidence or further
discussion.
Case in point: After the recent election,
a friend and I were lightly joking about how stressful the night was for both
sides until they brought up something their neighbor did that, in their words, “really
pissed [them] off”. The next day after the election their neighbor had hung his
American flag upside down to show his disapproval. My friend was incensed that
someone would use that legitimate military signal for life threatening distress
as a sign of their political opinion. They said they were angry because they
had friends in the military that they felt would be highly offended by what
they believed was a casual use of that vital signal of a life threatening
situation.
Maybe there are some in the military
that would be offended to see their sign of distress used for political
posturing, but there are also some veterans who have done the exact same thing.
There are many who believe that our country is at such a critical point that it
isn’t just about the economy anymore, but about our core liberties, and yes even
life threatening political policies that are destroying this country from the
inside out. Try as I might I could not get them to see that. Being self-blinded
to the serious liberty and life-threatening policy differences that do exist;
my friend fell back on the baseless charge of racism to explain their neighbor’s
behavior. My friend asserted that they knew I wasn’t a racist for my opposition
to Obama, but that so many other people really only opposed Obama because of
his race. My friend could see no other explanation for it.
Racism? Seriously? Nobody was
charging liberals with racism when they called Bush a Nazi or a war criminal.
Nobody was calling Jimmy Carter’s detractors racists back in the 1970’s when he
employed some of the exact same policies that Obama has now. My friend had
previously qualified the statement about their neighbor by saying he seemed
nice. My friend made no mention of race or his neighbor’s thoughts about race
previously. My friend said they had liked their neighbor before, but as
baseless and insulting as it was, racism had to be the answer for why he turned
his flag upside down.
Hearing the get-out-of-jail-free
caveat that my friend just knew I was not a racist, I tried to offer my explanation
for why their neighbor did what he did. I lowered my voice and considered my
words carefully. Trying to both ease my friends concerns and relate to their
situation, I first admitted that I too had turned my flag upside down for a
brief amount of time when Obama won his first term in 2008 because of what I knew his
policies would do to this country. My friend’s face collapsed. It was like a
switch flipped in their heads and nothing I said next mattered. I was one of
them.
Every example I cited of Obama’s
direct involvement in the loss of our constitutional liberties was ignored and
countered by unrelated or untrue accusations about Obama’s political
adversaries. They just laughed when I cited Obama’s 6 trillion dollar increase
in the deficit in only 4 years. My friend was stuck on the image of that flag
being upside down and not why. “Yeah but Romney would not have changed that”
was another repeated riposte. They even brought up Arizona’s immigration enforcement
law and falsely asserted that it was somehow an example of racism that conservatives,
like myself, allegedly tolerated as if it was a relevant counterpoint to the Obama
TSA’s daily violation of the 4th amendment. I even cited Supreme Court
cases (which garnered nothing but glazed eyes). Finally I cited the chief
example of why my friend was so upset about that flag being up-side down; Obama’s
recent cover-up, lies, and abandonment of our people… even our Navy Seals in Benghazi,
Libya whose calls for help went through to the White House situation room multiple
times over hours. If they had been a part of a unit on a battlefield their flag
would have been up-side down because they were cut off and dying. Their pleas for
help were denied, they were murdered as the White House watched and then lied
about it, and my friend refused to consider it as a valid reason why their
neighbor might not be a racist just because he hung a flag upside down.
My friend, if they are still my
friend, hasn’t said a word to me since. They are programmed. They are spring
loaded to shoot off in a pre-planned spastic reaction to politics. Even when
presented with undeniable, current, widely-reported facts, they can’t let go of
the narrative. This is why people tread lightly around friends and family over
politics and religion. Sad day. Guess, all I can do is pray for them now. Maybe
they will listen to God.